NEIGHBOUR DISPUTES
Each one of us strives to develop a good, pleasing or at the very least, civil relationship with our neighbours. However, considering our differences and a not so pleasing set of circumstances, disputes are sure to arise. Here is a good look on neighbour disputes, how to prevent them and how to deal with them.
Neighbour Disputes and their Causes
Neighbour disputes are typically quarrels and misunderstandings between resident owners. They can have various causes – from loud all night parties to messy pets. Other reasons such as invasion of privacy, renovations, parking disruptions, long grass and overhanging trees, your children’s behavior, dirty blocks and property and changes to boundaries such as fences can also propel neighbour disputes. Practically anything can be a trigger for it! Disputes usually occur when homes are quite close to each other – thereby making each other’s activity affect the other. With close proximity to each other, there is bound to be friction between or even among neighbours in your area.
Preventing and Dealing with Neighbour Disputes
Neighbour disputes arise mainly due to communication or the lack of it. A sure-fire way to prevent having to deal with a dispute is to get to know your neighbour. There is no need for you to become really close friends but at least acknowledge them and get to know their lifestyle. Once you’ve done so, you’ll be able to adjust and to take into consideration how each and every action you take in your home can affect their lives. Maintain open communication and include them in plans that you think will impact them and their property like constructing a fence in an adjoining property line. By doing so, they will feel considered and respected.
Avoid contacting third parties like the police or the council to settle disputes that you haven’t talked to your neighbour about. It would be a whole lot better to settle it among yourselves and come to a compromise. Lastly, avoid blaming, insulting and persecuting your neighbour. We hope these tips help you stay on good terms with your neighbours.